Can't We All Just Get Along?

When you have a conflict with another, you must do your part to resolve it.

"Doing your part," can mean communicating that you have a problem with the situation, looking inward at the part of yourself that feels wounded, or pulling away from the situation.

Only you can decide what's best in a given situation. You cannot force another to take a certain action. You can only control and manage the way you feel about the actions and reactions of others.

If you are not sure what to do, ask your Angels for the most productive, loving path you can take. They will gladly illuminate it for you.

 

May We Take Your Order?

When you order a meal in a restaurant, you trust that the server will bring it to you when it is ready. If things are busy in the kitchen or you have made special requests, it might take a bit longer. You would never go into the kitchen to give the chef directions.

It would be disrespectful to him or her and you would not enjoy your meal.

When you make a request to the Universe, let it go. Let the angels do their job. If it takes longer than expected, then perhaps the master chef is personally overseeing it and adding some special touches to make it even better.

Trust the angels to do their work. They are professionals.

The Deep Freeze

"For those who want to maintain control they are frozen in place, unable to take another step while they wistfully watch their friends ‘dance’ across the river of life. I encourage you to ‘let go’, connect with the angels and join me in the ‘joyful dance of life’.”


 

 -Excerpt from "Angel Whispers" available at morganastarr.com and Red Wheel Weiser- http://redwheelweiser.com/

Loyalty and Friendship

Many years ago, though I was an adult, I was still living like I was in Junior High School.

  I had a dear friend who was a mentor at the time. She got mad at a mutual friend over a situation she deemed unfair. Since she was mad at this person, I decided I was mad at him also...even though it had nothing to do with he and I. This man was my papa in a past life and I felt a deep connection to him in this life. But my mentor/friend was mad at him, so I felt I must cut him out of my life as well.

 Sadly, it took a year for me to see how my mentor was controlling and living through my life, since she was unhappy with hers. When I finally woke up to what happened, I gently sent her love...remained her friend, but no longer looked to her as a teacher. I took control over my life, went to my papa from a past life and apologized to him. He was/is amazing and totally forgave and forgot. Through connection with him, I met my medicine man and began a several year journey of exploration on the Red Road (Native American Spirituality).

That was a hard lesson that I decided to never have to relearn. I have  many friends and acquaintances who may not like each other, but I love them independent of how they feel about each other.

 My dear friend, Andrea de Michaelis of Horizons Magazine once said when discussing this subject, "My karma with a certain person does not have to be your karma." I love this. As always I strive to follow the creed of the Angels:

 "Love All, Serve All"

REMEMBERING

Memories are interesting things. Sometimes a memory in your distant past is jarred by a picture. Today I saw a picture of New York...the Statue of Liberty, specifically.

It reminded me of my only trip to New York. I was eighteen months old. My mother, father and older brother were preparing for our first trip to Africa via boat ride. I wandered off while browsing in a store. My father found me as I was running down a sidewalk screaming. To prevent me from getting separated from them again...they bought me a harness.   I managed to break it on the boat ride to Africa. 

 

 

Also, I flirted my way into the Captain's heart and at his dinner table where we were special guests, I had my first taste of champagne! Bless my parent's hearts. Here they were on their way to be missionaries to an isolated area of Africa and their baby daughter is drinking champagne!

The personality one has as a child, though the world may try to control it, never leaves a person. With the help of the Angels it can be reborn in a beautiful way, allowing you the freedom to stretch your wings and fly! I never fit in the box of religious ideas, and never will. Thank goodness the Angel's spirituality is far beyond religious dogma. I choose to fly with them...come join me!

YOU ARE IN CONTROL

"Remember if the shifts of energy are getting too intense for you...You are the one in control. Ask your guides and we angels to slow it down a bit for you. Also ask for clarity.

Perhaps you are in need of setting more boundaries in your life. If you say no to some things that pull your energy, then you will have energy for things that really matter.

Life is not supposed to be one struggle after another. It is supposed to be one of joyful growth. It is up to you to decide how you want to feel about things. You are the one in control of your feelings, also. You often try so hard to control things you can not, that you forget about the power you have to control other issues in your lives, such as your expectations and emotions.

We angels are always ready to help as you need us...Just ask...."

~Archangel Anael~

"Love All, Serve All!"

LETTING GO

We are still feeling the effects of the full moon. Remember this particular full moon is a time to let go of issues that deal with relationships. Look within and see if perhaps you are trying to control someone you love.

Have you been upset because that person doesn't respond to you in the way you wish? Does it bother you that they expect certain things out of you? Are you upset because your loved one doesn't speak the words of love to you that you want to hear? Do you get your feelings hurt when that person gets upset with you?

All these are red flags that you are trying to control another person. This is a time to go deep to pull out inner issues to heal. Allow your loved one to be who he/she is. Let go of control. This will allow you a space to relax, grow and be happy with yourself. For you are the only one that can make you happy...and you are not able to truly make anyone else happy...they are in charge of their own happiness.