When
you feel that someone has hurt you, an unhealthy bond is formed between
you. This bond will hold you back and keep you from moving beyond the
hurtful situation.
Forgiveness cuts this bond and frees you to go
forward with your life. It is not excusing a hurtful act or opening yourself to let it happen again, but rather closing the door, energetically, and walking away so that it can never happen again.
Reconciliation is not always necessary. This is an option for a close relationship where a transgression is recognized and there is a spoken or understood agreement that it will not happen again.
Forgiveness may involve physically walking away from another or emotionally distancing yourself. When you make this choice, you make yourself stronger. Holding back forgiveness weakens you. Why would you allow another to have this power over you?
Forgiveness is not an act of charity, but of self-care.
Your Angels can help you cut these ties so that you can be free. Do it
for you!
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