However, there is another way to speak our truth. Before speaking, pause and fill yourself with Divine Love. (I do this by activating my pyramid of protection and breathing in Divinity…as well as calling the angel, Anael into my essence).
As you do this...your heart lines up with unconditional love. All the judgments and expectations you have for another person and yourself dissolves. You are then able to see that person through Divine eyes. With that perspective you are able to stand up for yourself in a strong and beautiful way.
One dear friend, Suzy (the generic name I use to protect their identity) is a wonderful example of this. A friend of hers, (we will call Sam) was verbally bashing another friend to her. Suzy just looked into Sam’s eyes, smiling a smile full of Divine Love and said, “Well, you know Sam, there is beauty in everyone….even you!” She continued to smile while mirroring Sam’s inner Divinity back to him. Sam simply said, “Thank you,” though he appeared a bit confused. This gave him food for thought later on.
Suzy has learned the secret of being in a space of Divine Love and showing it to all whom she encounters. She speaks her truth in a loving, yet firm way. No one walks over Suzy, trust me on that! Lol!
Say what you Mean…Mean what you Say…
And at all times, Stay in a space of Love