When you love someone regardless of their feelings for
you and regardless of what they choose to do with their life, you have taken
the step towards unconditional love. Think about how many times you have told
someone, “I love you no matter what, I just want you to be happy.” You think
you are showing unconditional love. However, as soon as you say, “I just want
you to be happy” you put conditions on your love.
You must be able to say, “I love you not matter what,
whether you are happy or sad, rich or poor, like me or hate me. I simply love
you.” Being attached to their reactions to you causes you to step back into
control, thereby getting off the track of unconditional love.
This is hardest to do with family. We think we know what
is best for them and try to control them by telling them we just want them to
be happy. Instead, just love them with no judgments on the path they choose to
walk. It is their journey and their lesson. Why would you want to take that
from them?
Speaking of family, they may choose not to love you in
the same way. Allow them that space and then perhaps you may find it is
healthier for you to put some distance between them and you. After all you
chose to have them as your blood family to learn lessons of life.
The exciting part of life right now is that your soul
family is gathering! Those you have been with in other lifetimes and done much
healing and spiritual work are beginning to find you. You will feel closer to
them than any blood related ties. Remember with them also to show this
beautiful unconditional love. This will make your connection stronger as you
unite on a mission of service to mankind.
Don’t forget to
keep the balance in all things. Laugh and enjoy your life experiences. Your
biggest ‘job’ here is the pursuit of happiness and adventure with its own
unique perspective.
~ARCHANGEL
ANAEL~
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